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My name is Stephen, I'm 27 years old and live in the state of Michigan. I joined advice nators to give/receive advice and make some new friends. I suffer from the autism spectrum disorder. It has it's effects when it comes to socializing with people at times and other issues. You can always e-mail/IM me if you want to talk more about it. I also suffer from scoliosis and had back surgery in 1999. Since then, I may have a few days throughout the year when I am in back pain and have to take drugs to help relieve the pain. I have been working in the fast food industry for over 9 years, and as of right now, I'm looking to start a home based business in internet marketing. If you need advice or just want to talk and be friends, feel free to e-mail me or add me to yahoo messenger which is pcdoctor554 or add me on facebook which is http://www.facebook.com/pcdoctor2
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This might be kinda long and in depth i apreaciate it if you read all of it.
First of all im 19/f and my boyfriend is also 19. We'll call him J. Ok, so J and I have been together for 3 years, four next july. He treats me better than I could ever ask, and does things for me. We planned on getting married and probably having children together. The thing is over the past 2 years I've gotten really sick. I spend alot of time at hospitals and in doctors offices. Ever since six months ago, I've been on treatment for cervical cancer. It's working but the side affects are making me sicker than ever. Some days it's even hard for me to get out of bed. So what I'm getting at.. I always feel so guilty and upset about hurting him because of my sicknesses. I don't feel like a good girlfriend because I can't do some of the things he does for me. He tells me not to worry about it and it'll be worth the wait, but it isn't that simple for me. I feel like he deserves better, someone that can do things for him and make him happy. I know he isn't. I know how bad he wants kids, and now I might not be able to give him that. We don't get to do alot together and we LIVE together. It sucks so bad I don't even know what to do anymore. Any advice would mean alot to me.
Thanks
I'm sorry to hear that your sick. You should also be really happy that you have a nice loving boyfriend as well. As long as he understands what you are going through and he is helping you the best, then everything should be going according to plan. If you want to, please e-mail me at pcdoc2@gmail.com I would like to talk to you more.
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Thanks, I'll email you sometime.
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