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Q: okay...first off i am 20 years old and I am a virgin and dont plan on EVER having sex until after marriage, so any relationship I have will always be innocent. so now my question...
There is this guy, who really loves me, and whenever I am with him I feel great. He is like the perfect guy that every girl dreams of meeting. and I love him very much. The thing is he is only 16 years old. :S so I feel like its very wrong for me to have any type of relationship with him, other than friends.
he keeps telling me it doesn't matter how old I am, and he doesn't care. but i feel like its really really wrong. and i told him that once he turns 18-19 to call me up. i could tell it really hurt him, and i cant stand the thought of not being with him. :( have i completely lost my mind? please give me your opinion and advice. negative or postive, as long as your being honest. and please no jokes.
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You're absolutely crossing the line with this guy. You really made a great choice by saving yourself for marriage, but come on, a 16 year old? I thought your decision for sex meant you had morals!
I don't mean to insult or offend you, but 16 is far too young for a 20 year old and you know that. It's common sense. There is a guy that every girl dreams about that is around your age too! Maybe when this guy does turn 18 you can continue things, but do you really want to go through the pain of waiting one or two years to continue this?
I'm not saying this is true, but I think any 16 year old guy whose with a 20 year old woman is in it for the "older woman" attraction, to turn him on more. Do you seriously ever wonder if maybe you are living in a bizzare world when you think about this?
Your wrong feelings are very right. You don't belong in a relationship with a minor. It's the law basically. It may not be the law for a typical romantic relationship, but it should be.
-TheTeenGirl
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thanx for your advice, it was very honest but inaccurate. we're not crossing the line unless sex is involved, and its not illegal for the same reason.
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82401
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