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My boyfriend is 18, he is out of school, has a GED and a job. I'm 14, in the 9th grade. All of my friends say that he is too old and that I'm "turning into a whore". He says he loves me and that he only wants me to be happy. Hes really sweet and I dont see what the problem is. My mom knows about the age difference, and she really hasnt said if she was ok with it or not. Do you think its ok? Also, I really love him and he says he loves me, is it possible to find your "true love" at 14?

Im in the same situation but im 17 & i like a 26 year old. I dont see anything wrong with really except the illegal part of it. It is very much possible to find love at 14 its just not something that happens to everyone.

im not telling you to leave this guy but i am saying dont let him hurt you. not physically but emotionally. It is not normal when a guy over 18 falls for a 14 year because hes usually in it for the wrong reasons.

Stay with him but be careful

Hope i helped
kim:)


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