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General question. I would like to hear everyone's thoughts on the true nature of forgiveness:whether forgiveness is possible, or whether it is a man-made delusion. Any concrete examples are much appreciated.

I think forgiveness is very much possible.

You may have people in this world that once you hurt them forget about it. They may live their entire life ignoring you & you may never see or here from them again.

If its something serious like Someone robbing your home and taking everything you own. Then yes you have a reason to neverrr forgive them again.

--my dad had a affair with a woman that he worked with. My mom found out about him having sex with her before he even left her house. I dont know how but she did. My dad got the woman pregnant. But my parents are still married.--

You should forgive but you dont have to forget.

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Thanks for sharing the very personal example. I think you're right about forgetting-it often isn't either possible or practical, as the other columnist also pointed out.
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