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my friend slept over at my house, and we both slept in my room. i have a computer in my room, and i told her that she could go on my computer if she woke up before me, which she did. when i woke up, i was still in bed and i just opened my eyes, but i didnt move or anything. i could see from where i was on my bed that she was going through my computer and looking at all of my things. i could see that she was looking through one of my word documents. then when i said something, i sounded tired and she closed the document immediately and i could see she was hoping that i hadn't seen her looking through my things. i know that i shouldve said something but i didnt, and i completely regret that now, because it shocked me that she would do something like that.

so my question is...should i just try to forget about this happening? and also, is it just me or is it wrong for someone to look around someone elses computer without permission, even if they are(somewhat) a good friend?

thx a lot.

since its bothering you then you should mention it to her. You can ask her what she was looking at on your computer. (Since you know she was going through your information.) If she says she was just online or playing a game. Simple say but i know you werent because i saw the document opened. If she denies it say i told you that you could use my computer. Not look through all my information.

If she up and admits it & apologizes tell her to not let it happend again because you trusted her when you let her use the computer.

And yes i can see why you are upset. But something like this can be resolved & you shouldnt ruin a friendship over something like this.

hope i helped
kimm:)

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(Rating: 5) thx a bunch!

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