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i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance
One: you should never have sex with anyone at the 12,13,14,15 and so on.
two: have sex with someone you love & marry.
three:Never have sex because of pressure from other people. Those people are stupid for having sex at such a young age. Seriosuly the most they probly know about sex is the word itself. They dont know about the diseases they could get. They dont know the conseqences that they would have to deal with.
four: sex hurts the first couple times no matter what. But being nervous & scared adds so much pain & causes it to be a horrible experience.
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I dont have a sexual experience because im a virgin. But i have a slutty extended family so ill tell you a little about them.
Cuzn1: at the age of 12 she got a boyfriend - had sex & had a kid at the age of 13. Then she didnt learn her leason & had another kid at the age of 16. & another kid at the age of 18. And since she started having sex she has had a total of 5 miscarriges. Because she doesnt care. She is now 19 & doesnt take care of any of her kids.
cuzn2 aka her sister: started having sex at the age of 13. at the age of 14 she had a kid. Now shes 16 & pregnant with twins. And again she doesnt take care of her kids.
Those kids are now my aunts responsibilty & if she didnt take them in those kids would be in foster care.
Do not have sex because you do not & probly cannot afford the conseqences. And losing your virginty at such a young age & not with the guy you are going to marry. There is nothing special on your wedding night.
hope i helped
Kim:)
EDIT:
YES THAT MAY BE TRUE BUT IF THEY DONT LISTEN TO THEM THEY END UP SCREWING UP THEIR LIVES. aND THEY DONT WANT TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT THEY DID THIS TO THEMSELVES. THEY WANT TO BLAME EVERYONE ELSE. (i did caps on purpose)
(Rating: 5) thanks you did help me. but many teens my age actually know the consequences and just decides to ignore them.