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I have to cousins and their parents are seperated. Both of their parents are alcoholics. They live with their mother, who treats them unkindly. One of my cousins, Rachel, she's always upset and crying because of my aunt. My other cousin, Matt, he will argue with my aunt unlike rachel but he ends up angry and upset also. They refuse to admit that my aunt has a problem. Rachel and Matt do EVERYTHING! They washes the dishes, does the laundry, cooks every meal, cleans the windows, vacuums, dusts, and many other things while my aunt, she just sits there drunk, while screaming at them and making fun of them! Rachel is too scared to argue with my aunt about doing these things. Matt argues every now and then but not a lot. He also has always been very pale and thin because he is so upset all the time. They won't talk to anyone about this. They are scared of their own mother! I don't know what I can say to them to help them through this. Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do or say?
I think the reason why your cousins refuse to admit to someone that their has a problem is due to the fact that they maybe scared of what could happen to them next. I would like to know if your cousins live with their aunt? Do both the mom and aunt live together? Also, where's the father? Rachel is scared to argue because she thinks that she may get hurt physically and emotionally. If they are that scared, then you should see if they could go and get some counseling. This maybe a very hard task, but must be done. These kids can't live there being afraid of their mother and aunt all the time. It is unhealthy for both of your cousins. Hopefully all works out. If you have any instant messengers, please let me know as well. e-mail me at pcdoc2@gmail.com
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Thanks.
They live with their mom.
Oops..I didn't make sense with my question, but their mom is my aunt.
Their father lives in a different state.
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