I'm glad that you aren't going to leave them hanging for an answer and you shouldn't.

Let me remind you that you don't have to choose right this second. You can tell these guys that you need some time for yourself to think your love life over a little. I think the reason you don't want to do that is because you think that they might run off and find someone else by the time you have made your choice.

Let's face the facts. You know that you are likely not choosing your future husband, so it won't matter which one you choose. Do your friends have an opinion about it? Ask a friend or a sibling and see what they think. I know it's hard for you to just choose, but try to make a list of the good and bad about each guy. If one guy does drugs or has a history of cheating, you should probably check him off. Try choosing a good guy that pretty good. I don't think you want a bad guy.

Do whatever you want that can keep them from holding on for you. If you still can'y seem to pick, then you'll probably have to ditch them both and take more time for yourself.

Thanks! If you have anymore questions, please write me back!

-TheTeenGirl

Thanks! :]

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