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Welcome To My Advice Column!♥ I am a 13 year old girl and am very outgoing♥ My name is Adriana and I enjoy my life and solve my own problems♥ I help my friends a lot and easily understand people here♥ Also I try to get to as many people as I can, so don't take it personally♥ If you need to ask me any questions or need advice, ask me in my advice column♥ ~NeedAdvice21 (or A.K.A. Adriana)♥
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I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.
But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..
I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend.
you probably should tell a consuler or tell your mom to talk to your friends mom. im sure they could work it out that way. if my boyfriend did that to me, my mom would notice and i would break up with him anyway. also you could try to tell her that its physical abuse, if should would listen to that. i hope i helped.
~adriana♥
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