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My friends don’t have that much self confidence. They always ask me how they can become more self acceptant, and to be honest I have no idea what to tell them. I have very little, maybe even no self confidence. I always feel like my friends are better people, and I know that’s wrong. I know I shouldn’t compare myself to others because they are not perfect (no one is), but I can’t help it. Last year everyone told me I was a little “look-hard.” Basically meaning I was ugly, and people always told me how I was not a nice person... blah blah blah. This year though, I have people telling me how “gorgeous and beautiful” I am, and how I have such an amazing personality. How can that change in over a year, I just can’t bring myself to believe what the others are saying. How can I have more self confidence and help my friends have more also? I want to be able to help my friends, but at the same time, I need to help myself too. ♥ (link)
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first of you are right nobody is perfect. You shouldn't listen to what other people say. Listen to the good thing that people say and ignore the rude things other people say. Another thing to do to boost your confidence is look in the mirror and say things that are great about yourself. And one more tip is walk like you own the place then people will see how much confidence you have even if you have little it will look like alot!
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