hey ppl ma names lizzi
imma writer, a dancer and i play five instruments. i love to talk and give advice so ask me anything!
*im at camp at the moment and therefor cant take any messages. sorry for this inconvinience but i will be back in about two weeks to answer any of your questions. HAVE A GREAT SUMMER! =]*
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My friends don’t have that much self confidence. They always ask me how they can become more self acceptant, and to be honest I have no idea what to tell them. I have very little, maybe even no self confidence. I always feel like my friends are better people, and I know that’s wrong. I know I shouldn’t compare myself to others because they are not perfect (no one is), but I can’t help it. Last year everyone told me I was a little “look-hard.” Basically meaning I was ugly, and people always told me how I was not a nice person... blah blah blah. This year though, I have people telling me how “gorgeous and beautiful” I am, and how I have such an amazing personality. How can that change in over a year, I just can’t bring myself to believe what the others are saying. How can I have more self confidence and help my friends have more also? I want to be able to help my friends, but at the same time, I need to help myself too. ♥ (link)
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the best way to become more self-acceptant is to not care so much about what others think of you,because in the end changing yourself for others instead of yourself only affects you in a negative way. your onnly becaoming what other people want, and ignoring your own feelings. the only people you should ever be worried about are those who care about you and that you can trust. and around them you shouldnt have to feel self-concsious at all. dont listen to how people think you look or should look, because really they wouldnt care whether or not you actually change. pass this message along to your friends, because it seems they need to do this too. comparing yourself to them only brings you down, as you said. you dont need to compare yourself to others just to feel good, and neither do they. all of you have to truly believe that youre worth more than what other people may think(but at the same time dont be conceited),and those who truly care will notice you for these traits. take care, and good luck. i hope i helped =]
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