hey ppl ma names lizzi
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okay. there is this school that i am going to for my 10th grade year and i want to go to this school and then i dont. i have known my whole class scince pre-K and now everyone has a great bond with oneanother. i want to graduate with my class and i have made a huge friendship and here is this thing. i am so sad about leaving my crush. i know i shouldnt worry about a boy for this but this year i had this gut feeling that he liked me as well and i was afraid to ask him and im still afraid to call and ask him if he liked me and if he did i would really like to go out with him. he flirted with me so much at all these partiies and he did it infront of his g-friend and didnt care. they broke up like the next day. anyways its one of the top schools in the country and i got in and my parents want me to go and im really scared to leave. each time i think about it i just cry. i have had so much fun with my grade and NOW i have to leave them. i have told my parents how i feel but they say they want me to have this oppurtunity. my mom told me she would still keep me invloved and stuff but it just wont be the same. im just so confused becuase 1 its alot better than my other school 2 it hAS and excellent cirriculum and 3 it offers alot. my question is what i should do. my parents keep telling me that i dont have to do this but they really want me to. and if i do decide to go i would really like to call my crush. i just have this big felling that i was right and still do. how would i do that? i dont know what to do. and its so much pressure and my parents keep telling me they understand but i feel like they dont. what do you think i should do. im not quite sure anymore cuz at first i was so freaked out and thought it was so cool but now im not so sure i want to go anymore. im so confused right now and i cant get it out of my head. so can someone help me. i need real advice. its funny im always giving advice on this site and this is my first question asking. so please help me!! (link)
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i understand where both you and your parents are coming from. they only want the best for your future and i doubt theyre truly pressuring you as much as it feels. if anything you're probably putting some pressure on yourself because you can't make a decision. as for your grade, if you're truly friends it won't matter where you go to school. theyll still love you and you could always hang out after school. as for that guy, theres going to be plenty out there. but if you want to go for him just do it! get yourself out there and take a chance. if he likes you back it also shouldnt matter whether you go to a different school. im not saying you should go, and im not saying you shouldnt, im only trying to make the first option less scary so you can decide what you really want to do. good luck, i hope i helped =]
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