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Hey there!I'm Meg(or Megan).I'm 13 yrs old.I live on beautiful Cape Cod(except when it's the summer,and the tourists come,LOL!).I love to give advice,and my friends say I'm really good at it.My friends came up with this crazy idea that I should go to this site and give other people advice.Whaddya know?I love it!I also think it's good practice,because I want to be a child phycologist someday(I know,isn't that wierd?I'm already starting to think about the future!)I also love music.I mostly listen to Country music like Kenny Chesney(isn't he so hott?),Big&Rich,Gretchen Wilson,and Rascal Flatts.I also listen to some alternative like Weezer,Hoobastank,Jack's Mannequin,and Simple Plan.I know,those are two totally diverse genres!Remember:If you need some good advice,just ask.I will usually get back to you in a day.
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Ok, here is my problem. I have a group of friends. We all were pretty cool with eachother until this year. One girl was acting annoying etc. etc. and making some huge mistakes. My other friends got made at her and talk about her everytime I come over because they are dissappointed and mad at her because she made mistakes, especially a huge one. I agree with them on some topics, but not on others. The friend who makes mistakes is still my friend...but sometimes she goes and makes a white lie to me every now and then and it makes me uncomfortable. I can not side with her or else I'll lose some of my good friends, but I cant side with them either because I do not agree with everything they are doing. I am being used and pestered by the annoying friend sometimes. I try to talk to her about it....but I never can say the things I want to say right. I need help! What should I do?
--Stuck in the Middle
First of all if this girl who makes mistakes is your friend and your other friends talk about her,you should definatly tell your friends to stop talking about the girl who makes mistakes.Second of all,you need to tell your friends that you don't agree with some of the things that they are saying about the girl who makes mistakes.Then,you need to tell the girl who makes mistakes that you are not comfortable with her "white lies",and you need to tell her you don't like being used and pestered.If you want all this madness to stop,you need to say what you feel.
(Rating: 5) Thank you soo much!