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Yo, the name is Kev. I'ma a sucker for beautiful eyes, a lover, poet, artest, martial artest, writer, gamer and romantic... Need i say more?
I have 17 years of age, Ima guy, and I live in Rockville Maryland and go to Rockville High Skool. I made this thing because I wanted to try and help people... I know that there are few things to help myself... So I try and help people from ending up in a hole that I many never get out of.. So, BlackBatman at your service people

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Thing is, is I'm with this guy and I call him my boyfriend only because we talk everyday and kept contact since driver's ed ended about 3 months ago. We made out before but that's about as far as we got and that was in April and that was the last time I saw him. He has a hard life and the day after we made out, it turns out he went to jail (nothing bad don't worry). He was there for a month and apparently he told his councelor to call me and give me his address so I could write him. The day he came out he called me and I was so happy and since then we've been talking everyday.
Now, it's been like 2 months since I've seen him and when we talk on the phone it's cool and everything but he always wants to talk about sex. That's fine to me cause well I think it's an interesting topic. Then he told me that he wants to do it with me. I am 15 and a virgin. He is 16 and lost his virginity when he was around 12 or 13 I think. The thing is, is that I have really strong feelings for him and I don't want to just be another girl for him. We have never said I love you or anything like that and he hasn't offically like asked me out or anything.
From the signs I get from him, I think he likes me but I don't know for sure because he's been with a couple of other girls and he might just know how to play me. I want to please him and I think I am ready I just want him to know that I don't want to just be another girl for him. I don't really know how to tell him though because when I tried a couple days ago, I kinda just started freaking out and he was like, "Sweety calm down. Baby it'll be okay" But I never got around to saying I don't want to just be another girl for you (I think that sounds kind of mean personally and he wouldn't respond well to that).

Please, tell me what I should say to him to make him know how I feel and how I should go about telling him I am getting strong feelings for him without making it akward.

Thank you so much in advance.

Well, first off: If you guys arn't dating then I really don't think you two should be having sex. And by the way that you're discribing him, I think that you're right in thinking that he just might be playing you. If you want to tell him that you don't want to, then there are a number of diffrent ways you could do it. Either by writing him another letter, note, or e-mail about it. Then, you guys could maybe talk about it in person. Remember, communication is the foundation of a good relationship. So, if you ever wanted one with him, then you would have to be able to talk about sensitive issues with him anyways. If you need any more advice then you can e-mail or IM me. I hope I helped.

-BlackBatman-

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much. it was a lot of help and your completely right
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