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Q: so my boyfriend was a acting like a really big jerk. He took me out of his profile and replaced it with another girl saying wow i love ___. he was lso being really really rude. I got so frsihtrated and hurt and mad that i dumped him. After i did it i was like what did i jsut do . We went out a few times before and he dumped me. After that he got really mad at me and started to say stuff like i hope you die and i hate you. We made up but still not going out. We were gonna stop probllay before summer casye we weould never say see each other. But i just feel like everytihng is filled up inside of me and i jsut need to let it all out. Im kidna getting really sad cuase he keeps say well u blew it i relaly did love you. But i just am really sad and i feel like i jsut need to start crying to make it feel better.

You've got one thing right in your question. Your boyfriend is a big jerk. He's not acting like one, he is a big jerk.

You may feel really upset that things are changed between the two of you, but if anything, it's for the best for you. It doesn't matter how mad he got at you, there is no good excuse that he can give you for replacing your name with another girl's name in his profile. And whether it was your fault or not the reason you two broke up, he should never tell you that you blew it and guilt trip you. If I were you, I wouldn't waste a second of my life talking to that guy after the crap he did.

And there is definetly no excuse for him to tell you that he hates you and wishes you were dead. Do you know how low he is on level compared to you? He is way in the ground while you deserve way better.

What I'm trying to say is that you may feel really down right now because you may have really liked this guy and that's ok. But what isn't ok to convince yourself that it's all your fault and that you don't deserve someone else. You need to tell that guy that you could care less whose fault it is because you aren't thinking in the past. You are in the present and moving to the future and it doesn't include him.

-TheTeenGirl

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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.

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