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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!
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well i have never really done IT but im afraid too
i heard stuff like you bleed
it hurts
etc.
people think im lesbian because im to afraid to get sexual
and guys scare because there whores
at least around here
i mean once iget a boyfreind and trust him
sure
but im really scared
because when i do get one
im afraid because i have never really done any hardcore sexual things
WHAT DO I DO
this is really gross
but i have no one to turn for advice
its to embarrassing to ask someone in person
Don't be embarrassed to talk to anyone about this. That is absolutely bull crap that people think your a lesbian because your afraid to get sexual. If you don't want to get sexual with anyone, then you absolutely do not have to! How old are you? 15- 19? When you get a boyfriend, you don't need to have sex with him. Because others are does not mean you have to. I'm not an expert when it comes to sex. Considering, i've never had sex before, but, from other advicenators, and looking up advice for people who ask about sex, you don't always bleed, and it doesn't always hurt. You need to make sure you find the guy for you before you go off and have sex. Seems like theres a lot of assholes in your school. So, better make sure who you can trust. Your better off waiting till your older. The people in your school who are all having sex are just plain stupid. They probably think that having sex is mature, when its not, exspecially at there age. Your the mature one because your worried about it, and not just going off doing it.Good Luck hun. Hope I helped. And, dont do anything your not comfortable with.
-Brina
(Rating: 5) aw thank you