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helllloooooooooo!! i got bored one day and my friend had told me about this site so i thought i should sign up!! so here i am full to bursting with advice for stuff!
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Hey, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I wasn't sure what to put it in.
Well, to start things off, I'm very self conscious. I think I am fat & ugly & just not a cool person.
Last night, I was at the pool & I was wearing a bikini. There were two of my guy friends there & one of my girl friends. I started feeling really self-conscious & I sat on the step of the pool [still in the water] hugging my knees. My two guy friends asked my friend what was wrong with me, so she came over & talked to me. They found out that I thought that I was fat & started rambling on about how I wasn't fat & how if I was any skinnier that I'd be anorexic...etc. It helped a bit but I still feel so self-conscious.
Now, for the guys on this site, do ya'll think really confident girls are attractive? or the more humble quiet ones?
& How do i get to feeling better about myself? I hate being the party pooper when it comes to swimming & such. Anyone got any good advice?
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Yea I know exactly how you feel. Except I didn't tell anyone about it and I actually became anorexic. I told my bf and one of my friends and I did feel better but still fat+ugly...But know I feel better because know I'm eating healthier and going to the gym. What I really recomend is dancing. I try to dance every night in my room for about 30 minutes. And Im trying to teach myself bellydancing and what happened to me was I thought I would never let anyone see me dance and I avoided the mirror at ALL costs but I tried dancing in front of the mirror...and it was just wow...all thoughts of me being fat just vanished and the only thing I thought about was the music...Just whatever you do..don't develop and eating disorder because soon enough it's all you can think about and it sort of takes control of you and it's horrible. Good luck!
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