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Q: me and my best friend are ALWAYS fighting or arguing over something. and its always so stupid. we have really strong opinons, so we kind of clash...so basically, why do you think that BEST friends would be fighting so much? over the dumbest things?!
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Sometimes when you find you and someone fighting a lot and getting on each other's nerves, it usually means that the both of you need a little time apart or not as much time as you spend together.

Being best friends doesn't mean agreeing on everything. If you best friend walked, talked, and acted just like you, you'd get annoyed of her fast. But she's a different person, she has different views on things in life than you do and that's normal.

When you find that you both are in a disagreement, just listen to her opinion and then change the subject to avoid a fight. Besides, you never know, if you heard her opinion, you may try to open up to that thought and truly wonder how she sees it that way. Don't put her opinions down and if you find that she's putting yours down, let her know that you feel disrespected. If she continues to push, then suggest hanging out later or just say that you believe one thing and she believes another and that should be the end of it. No wasting your friendship debating.

-TheTeenGirl

thanks. good advice.

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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.

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