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Q: I have a twin sister, and I am always helping her with school. I like helping her because she tries really hard. But I get very impatient when I am waiting for her to answer a certain question for a long time and I yell at her. I feel bad and I always tell myself I wont do it again but I do. What can I do ??

p.s. sometimes she gets an attitude when I explain something wrong and that gets me angry too because she acts like she is always right and I dont know how to handle this
-thanx
I think it's great that you're willing to help your hard-working sister, but you have to act like a teacher. And a good teacher waits for someone to figure out the answer and if they can't, they explain it more.

It's not like she's taking a while to answer because it gets on your nerves. She's thinking and trying really hard to understand. It's like being in class and when the teacher asks you a question and you are trying to think about it, they don't start yelling at you. They wait until you take a guess or admit that you are clueless.

When your sister starts to get upset that you explained it wrong, tell her it was your mistake and that you'll try explaining better. If she still gets agravated about it, just suggest that you both cool off and wait a little later to finish.

While she's trying to figure out the answer to a certain question, just think about how you are going to explain it better if it turns out that she doesn't know, but don't get mad because she can't understand it.

-TheTeenGirl

thanks...i`ll try your tips =)

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