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Q: Ren, my childhood friend, who has loved me since ever, is unstoppable. He always wants me to be his girlfriend since we were little, which is kind of impossible, because I'm so busy and not interested in that kind of relationship. But then he started it,
Since he can't have me, he starts going out with these girls and dump them in a day or an hour, just to hurt their feelings. I told him to stop, but all he said was,"I'll stop if you can be mine." some of those girls are my friends, and I feel sorry for them. He keeps doing it to other girls, and no one can ever stop him. He thinks by doing that, he is hurting me, because he has weakness: I don't know why, but he can never hurt me by any means. This is so sad, and those girls really like him. What should I do? I still am busy and tired of his behaviour... Please help...
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Well that's pretty childish and heartless to hurt these girl's feelings intentionally.
You can't make him stop, but you do have the power to warn these girls what they are in for. And they can decide whether they want to listen or give him a try and it just has to happen.
I think eventually if you just ignore or act like you don't know what he's doing, he'll understand that he isn't going to win your heart, at least not that way.
Just keep busy like you have been lately and try not letting it get to you. Besides, being with someone for just a day really isn't that hard to get over unless you've known them and have like them for a long time.
-TheTeenGirl
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82348
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