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Q: ok, well let me start off by saying that i chased away so many boys who wanna start something w/ me it's not even funny. 14/f
I don't wanna get a big head, but yeah, i'm pretty good looking, and in school... I always have different guys coming up to me and trying to start a conversation. They are really nice and everything.. and really cute, but the thing is I freeze up. Like for me, I love partying and everything and ya streaking, drinking, all the fun stuff. But I don't belive in relationships at such a young age. So when a guy trys to startsomehting with me, and wants to get a friendship going i freeze up and like NO.. NO RELATIONSHIPS. liek even if the guy isn't tryign to get in a relationship and liek just trying to be friends... i don't want him to fall for me and tehn i have to hurt him (happened in the past thousands of times). I dont' know what to do, and even begin.. please I need your advice! Thank - you :(
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Well first you really shouldn't be drinking, it's illegal. You're the same age as me, and I personally think it's stupid at this age, you get nothing out of it, except for being stupid for a few hours, then getting a massive headache the next morning, but that's not the point.
You're blocking new friends from comming into your life. And it's somewhat good that you don't believe in relationships at this young of age, it's an easier way to focus on school and get better grades, (i learned that the hard way). I'd say for you to try your hardest to get this out of your head, think, hey, well maybe this we can have a really good friendship, and tell the kids if they start to like you that you're not all about the relationships yet, and you're not ready to "commit" to someone quiet yet. They should understand, and if they don't, that's their problem, you can't help it.
So don't think it's your fault, it's theirs, they're the one falling for you, there's nothing you can do about it. :]
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The names Ashley. (:
I'm a sophomore this year at Quinnipiac University.
I'm majoring in Interactive Digital Design.
I haven't been on this site in years, maybe I'll pick it up again. (:
I'm a die-hard Philadelphia Flyers/hockey fan.
I play ice hockey, I'm a goaltender.
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Gender: Female Location: Connecticut. Occupation: Student. Age: 18 Member Since: April 18, 2006 Answers: 412 Last Update: September 15, 2010 Visitors: 33183
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