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Q: Okay..So one of my best friend got a new bf. They were completely obsessed with each other, and I was getting blown off. I confronted her and it didn't go that well. Now we barely talk, and she treats me like I'm not even there. I can't really explain the way I feel when she treats me, its just a "I'm basically not good enough to talk to her" kinda feeling. I just want to be a more civil state or starting to be friends again kind of state. Any ideas?
I know you miss your friend a lot, but sometimes you just have to let her have her honeymoon phase with her boyfriend and eventually they'll get sick of each other and start giving each other more space.

Though she should realize that she's not being a very loyal friend by acting as if nothing has changed when they have. But I think that if she truly knew what was going on in your mind, then she'd feel bad and try to correct things, but when you have that loving feeling, it's like you put on blinders and you see nothing but that one person you love.

What you should do is let your friend come to you when she wants to hang out. Find other friends to spend your time with and start making new ones while she's off with her boyfriend. There's honestly nothing else you can do to make her see things your way.

-TheTeenGirl

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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.

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