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Q: ok. i`ve been knowing thiss guy.. since 6th grade and i`ve fallen for him. *since 6th grade* but i was a fat girl and he wasn`t so he didn`t like me. we were kool, kinda friends i guess, but you can tell he didn`t like me cause i used to ask him out all the time. well throughout middle school, my like for him got stronger and stronger. and i lost weight during summer b4 9th grade. well in 9th grade, he started talking to me more, and more. and we evolved a friend ship. he had a girl friend, but she could nvr do nething durin the weekends, so i used to do stuff with him all the time, and he used to cuddle with me. well they broke up and we started talkin, and he asked me out on his birthday. well we broke up but even tho we were broken up we were still actin like we were goin out. he had another g/f and he cheated on her with me and was still tellin me he loved me, and i cheated on my b/f with him. well now he has no g/f and i have no b/f and we tell each other tht we arent goin to get one. but i dont understand why WE D0NT G0 BACK 0UT. i mean we tell each other we love each other, and spend each minute with each other, everyday @ school and everyweekend. but he is goin off to a school next year tht is like 5 hours from here. only gonna come down once a month, but idk. we`re at the end of out 10th grade year. and we have been talking since october of 2004 so almost 2 years. but we don`t go out but we act like we do and everyone at school thinks we do. please i need advice.
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Why would you want to be with a guy who cheats? It doesn't matter if you were helping him cheat, don't convince yourself that he wouldn't cheat on you.
You are no different from the girl he cheated on. The reality is that you are better off without this guy and you should try not getting involved with guys who already have girlfriends. You wouldn't like it at all if a girl was trying to get a guy who was your boyfriend.
I think you are taking advantage of the attention you're getting now because you lost weight. Being pretty and thinner doesn't mean being meaner and trying to get all of the guys. Besides, this guy started looking your way when you lost weight, don't you think he's only accepting you for that one reason? If you gained yoyr weight back, do you think he would talk to you? I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but you need to be careful with the guys you are hooking up with.
It's common sense that if a guy cheats on his girlfriend with you, he is a cheater and he will eventually do it to you later on when another attractive girl comes his way. Don't settle for a guy, take the time to getting to know a guy who really respects you and getting the guy you truly deserve.
-TheTeenGirl
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i`ve been knowing this guy since 6th grade. and we`ve been talkin since 9th. so its not like i don`t kno him. and i am in love with him and i know that he is in love with me. its just very complicated. but thnx for the advice. =]
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82415
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