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Q: ok so there is this girl and we used to be bestfriends and we grew apart and i didnt want to be her friend anymore and not becaise shes mean but just because it wasnt fun anymore anyway so i was trying to just seperate myself from her and so i moved lunch tables didnt invite her over but she moved to my lunch shes been inviting me over a lot and i just dont no what to do i refuse to tell her that we grew apart so dont put thatttt hope you can help
Ok if I were you, I wouldn't just try isolating yourself from her. A lot of friends can grow apart, but don't try to end the friendship completely just because you feel like it's growing apart.

Besides, when you seperate from someone and they are trying to put you back in their life, isn't that saying something right there? Maybe your friend is starting to notice the friendship is starting to grow apart too and she's trying to save it.

You can still have this girl as your friend while having other friends. Don't just suddenly not sit by her at lunch and ditch her. By doing that, you are leaving her with no explaination and she will eventually catch on that you are avoiding her. So whether you want to or not, you will have to tell her that you don't want to be her friend anymore if you are going to do this again.

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