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Well I have a friend who is extremly bossy. I have tried talking to her about this but that didn't work. I have actually talked to her more then once. I noticed she doesn't only boss me around she bosses everyone around. The other day she was bossing her mom around a little even. I don't know how to tell her to stop and still be nice. I don't want to turn this into a fight. I love her but I am not going to be bossed around. I have started not doing anything she "demands" me to. But she still does. Please help!!!!!

Well she can't force you to do things. Yea she might be your friend and you feel like you have to listen to her and do what she says but really, you don't have to. If she tells you to do something you don't want to do, kindly tell her no. "No thats all right, I'm going to do this." or something along those lines. Hopefully sooner or later she'll get the hint. Maybe keep a close track of things she's demanding and around the time she's demanding it. So when you talk about it with her you'll have some back up information and it will be really hard and stupid for her to deny it.
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(Rating: 5) Thank you. It isn't so much shes demenading I do things for her. She more says ok come on were going her. She told her mom to go home and get her food. And i was shocked. Last night she was being bossy and I just ignored her and told her I am not going to do that if that is your way of "asking". So thank you for your help.
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