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so i recently started going out with this guy. and we go to 2 diffent skools so we see each other on the weekens. we started going out on the 26th of march btw.
so he came to my skool with me on monday to meet all my friends and for fun and stuff, and cuz he doesn't have skool.
so i have this really pretty friend and i thought they were flirting and she is alot prettier than me, seriously she is almost a model and shit.
and i think she likes him and i think he likes her back. and i really like him and i don't want her to steal him from me. or for him to like her while we are going out, cause that is weird. it would be like everything is fake and stuff. so i don't know what to do.
his friend said he wouldn't cheat or go for another girl, but i am not worryed about that. i am worryed about them liking each other.

what should i do?
i don't wanna scare him off or somehthing, maybe i am wrong? but i am pretty sure there was flirting and i am really sad. i cryed for ever and every song i heard made me sad. i feel like a baby. :(

The model girl is for sure not your friend, she needs to KNOW that he is yours! You should confront your boyfriend, its all about the communicating, hes your boyfriend! Dont worry though, the guy cant be scared off, only because youre curious if he likes another girl. Like you said, you dont want the relationship to be a fake one, so by confronting it will make it better, knowing for sure how he feels. good luck ;)
-beckss

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(Rating: 5) thnx
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