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MY boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year, but for the last couple months we've been going out in secret while he rebuilds the friendships he lost. Innocent right? Not really.
Now, all he does is joke around about liking these other girls and then will be like "jk, i love you". He hurts me all the time. His myspace doesnt have one mention of me, his 'girlfriend' and 'best friend' but at least 5 things for this other girl. He wrote this poem to my other friend and now he's entering into a contest. He's always in a bad mood around me but act likes the perfect guy around everyone else. I understand he's trying to get his friends back, but I really want to be treated like I mean something to him. Online, he hardly talks to me! Sometimes 10 minutes will elapse before he'll say "ok" or "cool". I don't know what to do! The only time he acts like a real boyfriend is when we're hanging out just the two of us. He always sends me parts of conversations with other girls that I don't want to see and I tell him not to send it but he does anyways.
Am i just overreacting, or reading too much into it? I'm pretty sure he loves me, but all his 'jokes' about liking other girls is starting to make me question our relationship. I feel forgotten and talking to him about it makes everything worse. He just says I complain too much or im 'abusive'. I love him so much and I'm so confused! All the stuff he used to do to me he does for other people while i just stand on the sidelines being jealous.
Help!!
Reading this over i sound ridiculous but I'm really hurt and this whole this is both emotionally and physically draining.
Your boyfriend is being a jerk and needs to be treated as such.
Stop trying to talk to him online. And if you do, tell him about what guys you like..then say jk, without the I love you.
And in the mean time, shop around for a new guy. This one's antics are going to get real old real fast.
If he isn't showing you that you are special, find one that will.
Oh and this going out in secret is a crock of shit. You should NEVER have to be with someone secretly, unless he is married. Doing that to someone is wrong, period. He should have never asked that of you, and you should have not agreed to it. It is beneath you and you deserve more.
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thanks so much :), this is really hard for me because i really do love him :(
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