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Suicide - A CRY FOR HELP
A suicide attempt is a cry for help -- a desperate effort to end the pain of problems that have become overwhelming.
A new teen suicide hotline is available in Southeastern Idaho through the Bannock Youth Foundation. If you or someone you know is depressed or contemplating suicide, help is available 24 hours a day. Help is free and confidential.
1-800-949-0057
SOS
Teen Suicide Prevention HOTLINE
1-800-949-0057
Let's Talk . . .
SOS Teen HOTLINE: 1-800-949-0057
Emergency Medical Services: 911
What To Say To A Troubled Friend . . .
"I'm here for you."
"I want to hear about what's bothering you."
"I really care about you."
"Let's talk and figure out how to make things better."
"Things are tough now but they will change - you've got to hang in there and I'm here to help."
"I would feel horrible if you hurt yourself and I don't want you to die."
"If I can't help you, I'll help you find someone who can help."
"No one and nothing is worth taking your life for."
What You Can Do To Help A Depressed Or Suicidal Friend.
Listen to your friend with concern.
Ask your friend if he ever felt this bad before. If so, how did he handle the situation?
Share a time when you felt pretty bad and assure your friend that things can and will change.
Be especially concerned if your friend takes drugs and/or alcohol because their judgement is impaired.
Ask if your friend has suicidal thoughts.
Let your friend know that many people think about suicide but never actually attempt it.
Give your friend a hotline number and make sure your friend calls.
Stay with a depressed person. Do something together.
If your friend is suicidal and refuses to get help, tell a responsible adult as soon as possible.
Make specific plans to see your friend the next day.
ANOREXIA HOTLINE
We provide help for those struggling with Eating Disorders :
If you need help, please call the ANAD hotline, 847-831-3438 (Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm, Central Time)
Anorexia, Bulimia & Compulsive Overeating.
Abuse, Rape, Incest Hotline: 1- 800-656-HOPE
Bulimia/Anorexia Hotline: 1-800-227-4785
Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD
Covenant House Crisis Line: 1-800-999-9999
Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE
National Runaway Switchboard: 1-800-621-4000
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-SUICIDE
Peer Violence Hotline: 1-87-REPORT-IT
Young and Pregnant Hotline: 1-800-550-4900
Youth Depression Hotline: 1-800-HIT-HOME
FOR MORE INFORMATION VISIT http://www.library.nashville.org/YA/health.htm
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My bf broke up with me, he gave me an excuse pretty much he said well if we fight this much now how are we going to have a future and we're going to ruin our friendship. Ok it's an excuse bc I was willingly to do anything for us to not fight but he wasn't. I really love him, when he broke up with me I had to have one of my friends stop me from not starving myself or cutting myself. I can't stop crying, it just can't be over I need to talk to him. What do I say is this over u heartbreaker? lol It's weird bc we only had a few fights and stuff and we were doing good a few days ago..please what do I do I'd do anything for this boy and anything to get him back ik thats desperate..but I LOVE HIM!!!!!
Well, is you love him you should realise what is best for him. Talk to him ,work it out. Explain how you feel. Or write him a letter, explaining exactly how you feel about this whole situation, and how much your in love with him. If you keep it all up inside of you, then you're most likely to feel even more emotional pain. I think that the fact that he thought there was something wrong with your two's relationship is what is REALLY getting too you. let it out. Talk to someone. Letting it out will help you so much.
-Ava
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(Rating: 5) yeah thanks...but he left me for another girl..he asked her out a few hours after we broke up..what a nice guy ik..but thanks a lot