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OKay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months , and we are definantly in love. Lately we have been talkin about sex, a little more and more each time we talk to each other. Like last night we were texting each other and he said and i quote "Blaire, I love you, & you no that, i would do anything in the world for you. And , well now, i think im ready, for well you know, to have sex. I think we should try it. But only if your ready"
and the thing is , were young. He is 16, im almost 14.(one more week) and well, i would really love to loose my virginity to him, but he has already had sex(he used to be in the major party scene. He quit for me.) So should i have sex with him?
-Confsed
I am laughing at some of the replies you have gotten here. Many are just saying "No you're too young" or "He just wants the sex and doesn't care about you"
That is pretty funny since in the time he has been with you, he has quit partying and HASN'T PRESSURED YOU into sex. You have been together 8 months which is a long time to be together without having sex.
He is brining it up because he is ready and is trying to find out if you are. If all he wanted was sex, he would have left by now and found someone who would have given it up.
Since the two of you are having open conversations about sex (which is an excellent thing by the way) tell him that you would like to lose your virginity to him...just not quite yet. He is over 2 years older than you and he should take that into consideration.
He seems like a decent guy..despite what these other twats are saying..give him a chance to show you and ask him to wait for you a little longer until YOU feel that you are ready.
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Thank's a bunch. i definantly agree with your advice. You're so much more understanding then what the otehr people are saying.
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