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Q: i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 and he wants to have sex but i dont and he sead ''if we dont then we have to stop going out'' but truely love him and we have been going out for 2 years but if we did have sex he it would be rape right cuz i'ma minnor and thats why i dont want to and i told him that but he still wants to i would have sex but it's illegal so i dont know what to do should i have sex or not (keeping in mind we love each other)????
-Bryona
Ok, it is wrong for your boyfriend to pressure you into doing it otherwise he will break up with you! That is not right! Even if you really truly love that person, that dosen't always mean you want to have sex. If i were you i would wait until i was ready and comfortable doing it. You don't want your first time to be something you regret! Hope this helps!

p.s-Go with your gut feeling on this one.

Thank you for telling the right thing to do! I can't believe I was ever that stupid. I said no and he went away just like everybody said would happen. And he loved me so much that three days later he was having sex with one of my friends. It worked out because I found a very nice guy. Thanks again!

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