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Q: I really want a boyfriend. I've had one before but he was unreliable and I'd like someone better. With Valintine's (sp?) Day coming up I really want this to be my chance. Well there are two guys I like and I'm going to use letters so if you don't like it don't answer it.
Let's begin with A. A is hot and popular. Really popular. Yet, he's different from all the other popular guys. He's sweet and funny. We always talk in language class and he writes these beautiful poems. The only thing is he never notices me outside of language.
Now it's J. J is hot but unpopular. He's funny and awesome. We don't talk much but sometimes exchange a few words online. In gym he constantly stares at me though.
So my question is which guy should I go for? Which do you think is more worth it? Should I forget about both of them?
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This isn't something you want to hear, so if you're only looking for happy, positive advice, I suggest you stop reading now.
Your reasons for wanting a boyfriend are stupid. Yeah, it sucks being alone on V-day, but it's incredibly stupid to go looking for a boyfriend for that purpose. Any relationship that begins because you want a boyfriend is doomed to failure and quite frankly a waste of your time. You should want a boyfriend because you like a certain guy, not just for the sake of saying "I have a boyfriend!" Until you're comfortable alone, you're never going to be happy in a relationship & in seeking relationships regardless, you're subjecting yourself to unnecessary misery.
As for who you decide you like more, you need to screw the whole "he's popular, he's not" thing. That's amazingly shallow. Like a guy for who he is, not his status in high school. If it didn't matter to you, you wouldn't have said it. Reevaluate your priorities before you go searching for a boyfriend.
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I said it would be nice to have one for V-day. I said if they were popular or not as in I'm not that popular and sadly people judge. I see you haven't noticed that I like two guys in particular. I am gracious for your opinon and happy you told me the truth, but you read too much into the question and made assumtions.
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bio
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My name is Kailey. I'm 17 years old & a senior at a high school in Massachusetts. I'm told that I'm mature for my age, but I'll let you be the judge of that. I love giving advice, but I'll tell you the way I see it, so you may not always like my answers. I especially like giving relationship advice. I don't claim to have all the answers, but I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and I feel as though I can give good advice on the subject.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Massachusetts Occupation: Student Age: 17 MSN: ookaileyoo@yahoo.com Member Since: November 27, 2005 Answers: 141 Last Update: December 1, 2006 Visitors: 12108
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