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ok well, a few of my friends and ALOT of people in my school and some even carry around condoms in their purses and stuff. some of my friends havnt done it yet but claim to love their boyfriends so their thinking about doing it. they're afraid they'll get pregnat and stuff like that or they're boyfriends will leave them or something. they say that sex is the most wonderful gift you can give to someone. then why does EVERYONE these days have sex ALL THE TIME?!?!? and another thing why is it the best thing you can give someone? i mean really? i personally dont think its a big deal to be a virgin before your married i mean, whats the diffrence? ok ONE last question for you. i love my boyfriend too and i would consider having sex with him(depending on the answers above) but how would i bring the subject up with him? please answer and sorry for all the questions.

First of all your way to young to have sex. Im sorry but your in 8th grade? Maybe 9th? Sex is supposed to happen between two people who love eachother and to have children. For a lot of teenagers though its almost like a game. Most dont think of what could happen if the condom breaks or if the person they are having it with has Aids and lies and says they do then you have it for the rest of your life. These are things teenagers need to think about. I guess people think its such a big deal that your a virgin till your marreid because your 'supposed' to have sex now at like 15 and 16. I think that is stupid and I respect people who are saving for marriage. I dont know if I answered all your questions but I hope I helped.

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