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Ok well I've liked this boy for some time now. Like 6 years. I just dont know what to do I think he likes me but not sure. We were best friend but we both went to new schools this year and well we kind of arnt that close anymore. I still get that butterfly feeling in my stomach everytime he calls me or I see him but I just dont know what to do. I'm way to chicken to tell him I like him or to ask him our so dont even think about telling me to do that. Also I dont have anyfriend that are close to him to tell him. I just dont know what to do so please help me!!! I rate 5 for good answers!!!
Ok, so here are your options:
NOT tell him and pine away for him secretly and make yourself miserable with the does he, doesn't he stuff and have your heart broken anyway when some girl who isn't a wuss tells him and he starts dating her.
TELL him, and for good or for bad, find out for sure where you stand so you can either shove your tongue down his throat or find a new boy to crush on and worry yourself with whether or not he likes you back.
Look, I have been there. I have been way to scared and nervous about whether or not a guy liked me. Every little thing that he does makes you think it is possible or puts you in a total depression because now it is impossible...then it become possible again.
Love happens, you don't get to pick and choose who you fall for, you just fall for them. They are your feelings and you should be proud of them instead of worrying and being insecure about whether or not he likes you back. I say that you tell him and accept his answer. You will be a stonger, better woman (and I say woman because it takes a woman to be able to own her feelings and be proud of them)
This guy is just one of the many, many, many guys you will like/love/date/have sex with/ become engaged to/marry/divorce/remarry.
You will need the practice. Think of him as a test run, that way if it doesn't work out, you will be better equipped for when the real one comes along.
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Wow thanks alot that really snapped me into reality :D
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