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ok theres this guy we'll call him matt. ok so heres the thing. like when i first met him he pretty much was my world. like i loved him sooo much. we had like almost everything in common. im 15/f and he's 18/m though. ok so he asked me out and i said yes. ok well like 3 days into the relatshionship i felt wierd around him. i dont know if it was the age difference or what..it was just wierd. like he started talking about peverted things which he never use to talk about. and kinda got like really personal. and i dont know i felt uncomfortable about the whole thing. and it was sad cause i just start going out with him. when i was trying to think of a way to break up with him. so i did. then its really weird bc theres this other guy i liked lets call him kyle well he was 15 like me. and i dont know. but he talked about peverted things and i was ok with it. i talked it back and stuff. and i dont know but i didnt feel as uncomfortable with him and talking about it. and now with matt, he is talking to me again and im trying soo hard to like be comfortable with him and all the things he says. but i just dont seem like i can. so i really dont know what my question is. but i just need some advice about the whole situation.anything helps. definate 5's for any advice.

You might have felt weird because of the age differance between you & Matt. I would have felt weird, too. I didn't like how after three days in your relationship how he started talking about perverted things, he might have only had other things on his mind. You probably feel more comfortable with Kyle if you guys talk about perverted things & it doesn't bother you, plus he's your age. Don't try & feel comfortable with Matt about talking about perverted things if you feel like you can't. It's not worth it.

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