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E-mail: jelli_bien@yahoo.com
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My bf and I started going out a few days ago. Thing is, I am not the most pretty person. In fact, I reaally lack in the beauty department. I am bigger than my bf PLUS I am ugly. I have already heard of assholes staring at my boyfriend and snickering and whatnot. It sucks how these people could possibly break apart a relationship with potential. I mean, who wants to go through this critisism and crap like that? Any tips on how to survive the first few 'judgement' days (or maybe weeks) as a couple? I dont want him to break up with me over something so stupid as this.

first of all, if hes going to break up with you because of what other people think, then you dont want him as a boyfriend anyway. just talk to him about it, tell him how you feel, and if its meant to be, you two will work through it. plus, those people who laugh..its called karma. not only are they very shallow human beings, but it will come back to get them. also, never let anyone tell you that you arent beautiful, because you are. no matter what anyone else says. the fact that youve found someone whos looked past your weight and looks and found that you truly are a beautiful person makes you so much luckier than those people who laugh, they should be jealous of you. in fact they probably are. theyre jealous that they dont have a wonderful boyfriend or girlfriend who values them for who they are. you truly are lucky, and you truly are beautiful. i hope everything works out for you.

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(Rating: 5) ty so much


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