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Q: ok....i'm 19 and.about a year and a half ago, me and this guy chad started dating but i had to move a few months later so we broke up becuase we had to, not because we wanted to. then i come back home to visit some of my friends about 3 months later and hes dating one of my best friends, which i thought i was ok with. she felt bad. but then the past few months i realize how much i still love him and he talks to me all the time and calls me baby and cutie and i know for a fact he still wants me back and if i were to move back home we could be together but i dont want anything to happen to my friendship but i love this guy with everything i have. what do i do?
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He's not being fair to you or to his girlfriend/your friend. He can't be with her just because you're not there-- long distance relationships *can* work if you're both putting in the effort-- & that's not fair to her that he's with her but would drop everything for you if you were to move back.
You need to talk to him & make him figure out what it is that he wants. I don't think you're in the wrong here-- you can't help having feelings for him. He's the one who needs to decide what he's doing. Either way, someone's probably going to get hurt, but sometimes you just can't avoid that. If he won't break up with her & try something with you, then you need to move on. He's not worth your time if that's the case.
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My name is Kailey. I'm 17 years old & a senior at a high school in Massachusetts. I'm told that I'm mature for my age, but I'll let you be the judge of that. I love giving advice, but I'll tell you the way I see it, so you may not always like my answers. I especially like giving relationship advice. I don't claim to have all the answers, but I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and I feel as though I can give good advice on the subject.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Massachusetts Occupation: Student Age: 17 MSN: ookaileyoo@yahoo.com Member Since: November 27, 2005 Answers: 141 Last Update: December 1, 2006 Visitors: 12130
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