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Q: me and my boyfriend were going out for about 14 months...everything was really great at first but then just a little while ago it started to go down hill, we started fighting a lot and everything. well i went to my friends yesterday and i met this kid Brandon, he was really nice and good looking. we flirted a little. But then today i went down to my friends house and he was there and me and him started talking and we connected really good, we made each other laugh we were kind all over each other but not alot. but me and him barly talked to anyone else that was there. It hard to explain we just hit it off really good...but anyway i was going to go home and he was going to walk me home but we got by my house and i asked him if he wanted to take a walk so we did and we ended up in the woods. so we sat and we talked and then we started kissing, and kissing lend into fingering then we had sex... i feel real bad tho and i know i have to tell my boyfriend but i'm not sure how to, i mean i don't want him to break up with me but i believe he will because i cheated on him, how is he supose to trust me....i need advice bad...
I also feel like a slut to and i feel really bad, like i let my self down and i did something that i know was wrong..like i just slept with a guy i just met..am i going to feel like this forever? how do i make it stop?...
Thanks in advance...
sorry its long to!
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You may always regret it, but think of it as a learning experience. You'll remember how awful you felt afterwards & never do the same thing again. But you're not a slut. You just had a momentary lapse in judgement.
It's great that you want to be honest with your boyfriend & that you feel bad about it. It shows that despite the problems in your relationship, you still care for him. Your honesty may save your relationship.
Tell him in person, & let him know that you regret it. Tell him that it wasn't something you did to purposely hurt him, & that you want to remain a couple & work through things together. But also tell him that you'll understand if he needs space & time & that you know you'll need to earn his trust back & that it won't be easy, but you're willing to work at saving your relationship if he'll have you.
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My name is Kailey. I'm 17 years old & a senior at a high school in Massachusetts. I'm told that I'm mature for my age, but I'll let you be the judge of that. I love giving advice, but I'll tell you the way I see it, so you may not always like my answers. I especially like giving relationship advice. I don't claim to have all the answers, but I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and I feel as though I can give good advice on the subject.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Massachusetts Occupation: Student Age: 17 MSN: ookaileyoo@yahoo.com Member Since: November 27, 2005 Answers: 141 Last Update: December 1, 2006 Visitors: 12124
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