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Q: I'm a 14 yrs old girl, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and he's changed. He also thought i was cheating on him because i thought we were broken up so i told another boy we would talk. well I know my boyfriend still likes me and i still like him too. He never shows emotion like i never kno if he's mad sad or if he even cares but i know he cares. Since i don't kno he gets mad a lot. We also hardly talk and now he's talking about sex. Which i've been thinking about but why should i give him what he wants if he doesn't give me what i want someone to talk to. Should I stay with him to find out why he acts this way or if somethings going on that I don't know? or Should leave him alone and find someone new? but you have to keep in mind he doesn't tell me alot so there is alot I don't know about him.

Your relationship is going nowhere fast. You don't communicate, he's jealous, & yet he's asking for sex. Those are key ingredients in a failed relationship.

You need to talk to him & get your feelings out. If he won't talk, then I think you should end things. Communication & trust are key in a relationship. You need to have a successful emotional relationship before establishing a physical relationship, unless you're set on getting hurt. Right now, you don't even have the emotional foundation, so a physical relationship is just going to hurt you more & ultimately tear you apart.

Rating: 5

THATS DEEP! and true. Thanx:)

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My name is Kailey. I'm 17 years old & a senior at a high school in Massachusetts. I'm told that I'm mature for my age, but I'll let you be the judge of that. I love giving advice, but I'll tell you the way I see it, so you may not always like my answers. I especially like giving relationship advice. I don't claim to have all the answers, but I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and I feel as though I can give good advice on the subject.