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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f
Sometimes people hide their sexual preferrences until they are comfortable with the person they are active with. He may have always preferred sex a little on the rough side, but waited until now to show so. What he did was wrong. When you did not like something and asked him to stop, he should have stopped period. You are in YOUR own house, he CANNOT tell you what you can and cannot do. If he is not going to respect you and stop when he is scaring you or you stop enjoying sex, then you need to get the hell away from him as fast as you can. I do not believe in using sex as a weapon, but cut him off. Tell him that if he ever does that to you again, he will NEVER have sex with you again. It is NOT about just him, though some guys don't always realize this.
Talk to him and ask him what happened. Tell him that you did not like it and don't want it to happen like that again (as long as rough sex is okay for you at all)
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