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There is this guy that I am IN LOVE with. The problem is, is that he is my Ex. He looks 'SORTA' like Billie Joe Armstrong and this guy that I used to like. Me and him last night were talking at one his ballgames and I said "Kody, Fuck You" But I was just joking though and he knew it. Then he said "Yeah I know you do. But 'we' can't here" And I was about to die. And I said "hahahaha Very Funny Kody." Cause I knew he was joking. There is times were he will walk me to the bus and be as happy as anything. But then theirs times when he never talks to me. Like tonight at another ballgame. He saw me sitting with another guy, Jay and I think he 'sorta' got mamd and left after his game. He always stares at me and also tonight. I was cryin cause my cat died and he was like "Whats wrong?" and I said "My cat died" andn he said "Well uh.. How did it die?" and I told him and he said "well its better off now". I don't know whats up with him. When my friend the other day said "she likes KODY!" he turned around and smiled and never said anything.... Please HELP!!!
It sounds like he likes you too, but doesn't know what to do about it. You are sending him mixed signals if you are going to a game with another guy. He's being cautious. I don't know what the reason for your brake up was, but this seems like he wants to be certain before he makes the plunge again. You've got to show him that he is the only one you want to be with. Go to the games with a few of your girlfriends. Cheer him on. Show him he is the only guy you want to be with. When you are hanging with another guy that is leading him to believe you like someone else...why else would you be going out with him at his game? Look at what is going on with him. Is he dating anyone else? If not, why? If so, where is she? Just start showing up for him some. Don't over do it though. That could turn him off. Guys don't like to be chased unless it is for one thing only. And then it is for one thing only, not a relationship. If you want to be back with him just start giving him some smiles when he is staring at you. Have some eye contact. When he walks you to the bus be real appreciative. Don't talk about other guys. Talk about what you and your girlfriends are doing. Give him sweet little I like you very much smiles. If he talks about something that he and other people are doing that sounds fun to you it wouldn't hurt to ask if you can come along. It's not exactly asking him out on a date, it's a friend asking another friend if you can do something with him and other people. If he says yes, it is downhill from there. Don't play games to make him jealous. This will work against you. Just relax and be yourself. Don't be afraid to say, "hi", whenever you see him. Be cheerful and joyful when you are around him. You can even stop and chat for a while if it appears that he's open to this possibility. If not, simply smile look him in the eye and walk on. Things will start to heat up when he sees you are available.
I hope this helps.
Namaste!
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