15/sophmore/female.
I have been with my boyfriend since feb. 2nd 2004. yes, 2004, not a typo. He has always gotten, uneasy (i guess thats the word) when i talk to or hang out with other guys. Me and my boyfriend go to different schools. Well I talk to this guy from my summer job, and he is 21, and in college. My boyfriend is 17, and i am 15. And my boyfriend is on drumline, and so I am so used to him not getting home until 6:00. I get home around 3:30. well, he doesnt have drumline anymore, so he was home today. and i didnt call him. so when I did, he didnt sounded, not mad, but upset, i cant describe it. and he asked if i was online, and i said yes. and then he asked if i was "talking to that twenty year old " and i said yes, and i was talking to Elise too. And he said "I'll call you later" and i asked why. and then i cant remeber the rest, it was really short, and then he hung up. and didnt say bye. so i called back, no answer. i called his cell, no answer, so i texted him saying that im sorry and that he cant get mad at me for talking with my friends and that i love him (being my boyfriend) in a way that i could never love anyone else.
My boyfriend and i do have silly fights alot. but this one is stupid, i mean, this guy is 6years older than me. I would never date him. He is a good friend,sorta like a brother to me.
did i do anything wrong?
My boyfriend and i just got over the whole "cant hug the opposite sex" thing. he used to get upset when i did that. keep that in mind.
What should I do? What should i say? should i call my boyfriend? text him?
any advice is welcome.
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-Kelsey-
I'd say your boyfriend is really afraid of losing you. It's a guy thing, I know because my boyfriend is the same way. You definitley didnt do anything wrong, unless you said it cocky. I know its a girl's nature to make a guy jealous to test them, haha. But I'm not saying you are. If he's really truly upset, I think you should go out and buy him a Hallmark card that expresses how you feel, and then write a little note. I hope he's not being immature about it and holding a grudge. There's only so much you can do to apologize. He might have a selfesteem issue and his feelings might be hurt easily. Instead of being mad, look at it as he feels competition with the 20-year-old guy. Make sure you reassure him that he's the only one for you! Good luck
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Thank you, I definately did that! thanks soo much! :)
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