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I basically just want to know what people think about this and whether I'm the one with the problem! Last night my male housemate asked me if i wanted to watch a film so i agreed even though it was about 11.30pm as i couldn't think of anything else to do. I started falling asleep in front of it and then waking up and not understanding what was going on so i decided to go to bed and i told him that. So he started saying how the evening had started off really well and now it had been spoilt and how i had agreed to watch it with him and i was breaking my promise. He kept sighing and just acting really unreasonably and going really quiet and pissed off. So i just went upstairs and told my other female housemate that i was not going to be made to feel guilty about not watching a film because its ridiculous. So he came upstairs and started yelling at me so i yelled back and it got totally out of control especially as all this is over a film!! So then he said that no one had ever upset him to this extent before and how he used to feel comfortable living in the house and now he won't anymore. Then i decided to go and talk to him because i dont like going to bed in the middle of an argument. He was just like don't worry i forgive you. So now its my fault!! WTF?? then he went and stayed at his friends house because he didnt want to sleep in the house cos of what happened. Does anyone else think this is strange? Or is it all my fault as he seems to think? I know maybe i shouldnt have yelled back but it really upset me! Thanks guys.
I would have reacted the same way. It was a movie, it is not as if he invited you to the most important event in his life and you slept through it. My question to you is... Has he been unstable before? (I used to live with a dude...just him, myself, and two other women... he got pretty psycho. He did alot of things for attention. Bad...things...) There has to be some underlying reason for him to freak out as he did. Something is bothering him and he has either not said anything, or is unwilling to do so. Don't let things go...you need to get it all straightened out. Don't let him blame you for being tired. That is just dumb. He - plain and simple - overreacted. He may try to justify it, but he probably doesn't want to look foolish (It really isn't that bad once you get used to it...I should know. Heh.)
If things continue the way they are, you may want to suggest him finding a new place. Don't let things keep getting more strange. I did, and my friends and I paid the price for it.
----I want to make sure that I say that I don't know your man friend. He probably isn't psycho and he is just looking for attention. He may also be feeling left out. If you and your other female housemate talk or do things together often, he may feel that he is the odd one out. That could also explain his quick anger and being upset about something as stupid as this is.
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Thanks for that- i honestly think he's unstable!!!
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