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I have been with my boyfriend for a year we've even planned on getting married, I'm crazy over him but i always find myself jealous over other girls exspecailly his ex. He wasn't a virgin when i met him and i was, so you know where the story goes from there. I cant help but think that he still loves her sometimes. I mean i dont believe he talks to her but i'm just so afraid of losing him to her. On top of that fear, latley i find myself argueing with him over stupid things, half of the time i dont even remember why the arguements started... I even told him i hated him( i was mad and didnt mean it) I think i'm pushing him away or going crazy... whats my problem?? How do i fix it?? Wht do i do about the ex?? The Jealousy?? plz help me i cant lose him........~luvlee~
Jealousy comes from insecurity. It sounds like you are having difficulty with his past loves. Since you are feeling insecure about your relationship you can try getting an alarm system. You can attach to him and whenever he stares or thinks an impure thought about another girl he will get zapped. Then you will be notified by email. I do not suggest doing this however because A. Its inhumane and B. He's not going to like being shocked like a Rhysus Monkey. So the only thing you can do is tell him about your fears and let him know that while you are picking small and unimportant fights, it is just because you do not want to lose him (Now understand that the last sentence did not make sense. Why would you pick fights if you did not want to lose someone?) Hopefully, if he is a good boyfriend, he can reassure you that he is with and committed to you. You cannot go around thinking that he is getting back with his ex. That only make both of you miserable. You are going to have trust him and learn to be ok with that. Oh and they actually don't make alarm systems for human relationships. But ooh the possiblities...
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thanks for the help.. yeah i wish they'd make an alarm system ( mabey someday)
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