Well, I really love helping people with stuff, it makes me feel good, and I am going to school to be a psychologist and fashion designer(kind of, haven't decided). I'm 18 and my favorite movie right now is The Wedding Date, because the lines are really cute. Oh and I think the hottest guy ever is Spike(James Marsters) from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, he isn't the only hott guy I like but he is on top of the list.
I have a knack for understanding guys and girls I've been told, and thats good because I don't think I would have made it through school if I didn't.
Well hope to hear from you soon, and by the way just because I'm 18 doesn't mean I'm not mature, I may be young but I know about the world. So questions from all ages are welcome.
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I am 17/M. I have a girlfriend that I have almost dated for 4 months. We had a great realtionship to start out with. Once school began though I start to drift away from her. I am very active in school and after school. She is in love with me but I am not.(I told her I didn't after lying about it for awhile) She calls and I am not really inclined to call her back or even talk to her when she does call. It is like a chore for me. I wuldn't mind spending time with her but only if it was for awhile not some BS 15 mins. When we are together I feel really close and begin to like her a lot. Then after like 2 weeks I just dont care anymore. She is really serious in this relationship and I am not so much. I don't know what to do. I just want some direction or arrow telling me what I need to do. Plz give me that DIRECTION! (link)
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Have you ever thought that maybe you are just afraid to commit? that could be the problem you aren't ready to give up the single life just yet. If you don't think you can commit to be with her as her boyfriend for at least a while than I would say you need to end it, for her sake because you would just be leading her on. If you think you can be with her and like it then I would stay with her and see what happens, it could be a very good relationship. But in the end its really all about you, what you feel and whats best for you, I can't tell you what to do, go with your heart. best of luck, hope this helped.
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thx i think i am afraid to commit due to my abuse and neglect as a child so i dont trust ppl easily
Ill talk to her about how i feel
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