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i really need help. oaky my friend, lets call her A was like (heres the conversation)
my friend "A": can you tell her or l. or c.if anyof them sign on that i cant come tonight bc i have lots of hw to od
my friend "A": her ( meaning m.
me: where?
my friend "A": the movies

heres some info you should know to understand this:

m is one of my fav. 8th graders. and L. and C. are some of her friends. I thought that M. hated A. since she did before and stuff, so whatever. but heres what else she said:

my friend "A": well i dont know but l. was the one who invited me ......hes like ur more than welsome to come with us
my friend "A": but idk if anyone else really wanted me to go

this question may be stupid to you, but i dont know wether i should be mad at M. or not. i mean to go through with letting her go after she said she hated her. and for M. not to ask me, i dont know. please help asap!

You're overreacting. They want a good relationship, and invited you someplace. Don't see everything as the world is against you. M is fine, let her be.

Rating: 5

tahnks steven

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