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there really isn't much you can say to shock me. i've seen and heard a lot, so if you need help, don't be afraid to ask anything. i'm amazing at answering anything to do with sex.. so ask away =)

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ok im a virgin and i am 18 and my boyfreind / fiance is 22 and he has had 4 partners prior to me. also he has told me he is pretty big down there (normal sized condoms wont fit him) i havent actually seen it yet, but i am a virgin. i havent had any kind of contact in a sexual way at all and i want to have sex with him because we are so in love and getting married soon and all, but im afraid he will be too big and it will hurt alot. is there anything that the two of us can do to make our first time togheter (and my first time ever) more pleasurable and less painful for us?

well i know where you're coming from.. my ex-boyfriend was around 8 1/2 inches. yes. really. and he was my first. so.. it hurt; but he took it slow.

if your okay with it; have him finger you to loosen you up a bit. he can give you oral sex and the saliva will act as a natural lubricant. most condoms come with a water-based lubricant anyways.

make sure you are very relaxed; because then it'll really help with the pain and it'll be easier. you can ask him to be sensitive and start out slow and maybe not go in so deep.

the first minutes or so will be slightly painful; but then you'll start to loosen up and enjoy it more. the more you have sex; the better it will get.

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(Rating: 5) thanks. we are gonna try for tonight. the nerves thing is going to be the wrost part cuz im scared to death! but thank you i will keep your words in my mind!
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