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Q: Okay heres where ill start. I'm a pretty girl whos fun to be around and nice to everyone. I asked about a guy named A who was new. So him and me are always looking at each other and I can sense chemistry between and attraction. The thing is today i had straightened my hair and it was getting frizzy so I put it up and than took it down and he smiled and said I like it better down and I just giggled and aww thanx. Than my friends were like ask him out but i didnt. soo he starts talking to this pretty girl named Ceci and I was like confussed.

Does this means he likes her or does he like me or should I hang out with him or what?

And the popular tough pretty girls at my school like him so I'm scared of getting beat up too.
What do I do about that
I wouldn't worry about him talking to other girls. Guys even in relationships do that all the time. Just nature. It was coincidence that he talked to her, and she was pretty.
He does seem to like you, no doubt. Complimenting the hair is something we guys usually don't do unless we're interested.
But, it sounds a lot like he is a quick goer. AKA, he's not going to be single if you wait too long. You got to make action quick.
Also, love rules over all other emotions. This includes fear. If you truely do love him, you should not be afraid. Don't be. It shows weakness in you, and guys don't usually like that.
-Steven

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