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Q: ok well school jsut started and there is this boy i liked during the summer right after i broke up wiht one of his friends had we went out but he broke up wiht me cause he said he couldn't do that to his friend (cause his friend still liked me).Well now that school has started the boy (david) is like flirting alot but then again he flirts wiht other girls too and he sits by me in class.He like really flirts wiht me alot but i dont kno if he likes me.Sry so long!
In his heart, he does like you, yes. I have no doubt on that. He likes every single girl he flirts with, and he's trying to keep his options open. If he didn't like you, he never would have gone out with you and broken up for that cause.
But, he will probably never go out with you again because you are considered "Forbidden Territory". Sorry for using such a male term there. There are some people who you just cannot go out with, like your friend's sister or your friend's ex. He is trying to obey those rules of friendship, but he does not realise that you are his true love.
AKA, he values his friendship above his love. Perfectly fine for him.
I'd move on. Try to find someone else, and be happy. If he asks you out, the more wrong I am. But do not be an active participant in this potential relationship.

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