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Hey 'sup ya'll! My name is Anthony. I enjoy giving people advice. I like to help people with their problems or give them suggestions. You can ask me anything. But please type correctly, (no using internet slang, or abbreviations) because a lot of times questions can be misunderstood even by one word. I will try to answer these questions the best I can. It will help if you inclued AGE, GENDER, and be VERY THOROUGH. I do specialize in topics in Growing up, Relationships, SOME Technology, SOME Religion, Physical Fitness, and Philosophy (if you have anything that you've been wondering or thinking about and you want to tell someone, tell me!)
Basically, I am the male, black/asian, rap fan, non-punk, -emo,or -gothic version of twistedsister17. So you can ask us both for different opinions.
Also, any answer I give, please note that these are merely SUGGESTIONS. You do not have to take my advice. And once again, I will try to answer the best I can.
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I have no freedom. I am never allowed to go over to friends houses, unless I've known that friend for a really long time and my mom knows their parents real good. They never let me go to birthday parties and they refuse to let me even go near a water park even in the day time because they are soooo "dangerous." I have to read an hour a day too. Please don't tell me to talk to them calmly about it. I already tried, but my mom is so mean and hurtful. What can I do?
Well, it may be because of your age. Your parents may be overprotective, not dictative. However, never letting you go to birthday parties or waterparks does sound pretty extreme. As for reading an hour a day... It's not so bad, and its good for you. Hmm... I'm not sure how to answer this, because I don't know the whole story, and I don't know your age... So I'll answer as best as I can.
(I wanna tell you what I would do... but it may not be responsible... Anyway here it goes) If I was in that situation, I would go to waterparks and birtday parties anyway. But PLEASE don't do that. I would do that because I'm 17, and I know how to protect myself.
This would be more responsible. You HAVE to talk to your parents. Your parent's may not want you to go to friends' houses becaus they don't want you to have bad influences (drug use, drinking, smoking, stealing, messing with property, etc.)
Your parents may also think that waterparks are too dangerous. Tell them that riding in a car with them is also dangerous. Tell them that they can't be with you forever and eventually, they will have to let walk on your own two feet. You will also have to prove to them that you are responsible enough to do all those things. It might take a little time, but eventually, you will gain the independence you desire. Hope I helped, and good luck!
(Rating: 5) thank you, that was really great advice
-"anonymus"