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this may get kinda long...well i have this boyfriend and weve been going out for about 2 months now, ive seen him mabe once in this time period. he always is with his friends and has time for them but never asks me what im doing or if i ever wanna do something. i can tell he likes me i mean he calls me everynight and if he cant call me, like if he gets in trouble or something, he will tell one of his friends to call me and tell me he cant call...i know this sounds bad and all but i had one of my friends that is a guy call him and casually ask him if he was cheating on me cause i figure mabe hes sick of me and he says that he hasnt been...so i dont know what to do, i really love him and i never stop thinking about him so its not so easy to say, just dump him, thats the advice ive been getting from all my friends...i know i should talk to him about it but im to shy to say it on the fone...i would really appreciate anyyy advice anyone can give me i rate 5's!!! thanksss
i understand where your coming from but this is my HONEST opinion. Well i*m sure he really likes you and you really like him but i think that you should maybe ask to take a break and it really shouldn*t be that hard to get over him because you won*t see him obviously. I know your not going to want to but (i learned this in church) a relationship is made up of maaany diff. parts, one is communication which you obviously have, but then there*s intimacy (not sex but you know just like cuddling) and well i can*t member the other things but to me it seems all your relationship is is communication and it*s not a healthy relationship if that*s all you have. I think you should find someone else who you can just watch a movie with and cuddle with. I promise getting over him will be easier then you think!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea
*tell me what you end up doing i*d like to know, and im me if you wanna talk before you break up with him (if that*s wut you choose to do) i can help you come up with what to say without being hurtful!! (aim) -- crazlilchelc152 (i*m always on lol)
(Rating: 5) thanks a bunch...ill be sure to tell you my decision!!